There was a time when my life felt like a browser with fifty-seven tabs open, and every single one was playing a different video at full volume. Between managing my business, navigating life in a wheelchair, and trying to be a semi-functional human being, I was running on fumes. I thought "Sabbath" was just a dusty old rule for people who had time to sit still: which, spoiler alert, wasn't me.
But then I discovered the concept of Menuha.
In the biblical heart of rest (Genesis 2), God didn't just stop because He was tired. He created Menuha: a state of peace, tranquility, and harmony. It wasn't a "stop doing things" law; it was a "start being whole" gift. I realized that my burnout wasn't a productivity problem; it was a soul problem. I needed a romance with stillness.
That’s how my Sunset Sabbath ritual was born. It’s not about rigid rules; it’s about a gentle invitation to find sanctuary. If you’re on a healing journey and looking for a way to reclaim your peace, here are the five steps I use to transition from the chaos of the week into a sacred pause.
The Sabbath doesn't start with a clatter; it starts with a glow. In ancient traditions, the day begins at sunset, not sunrise. There is something deeply psychological about starting your rest when the light begins to fade.
I start my ritual by physically acknowledging the shift. As the sun dips low, I light a single candle. This isn't just for the aesthetic (though, let's be real, the vibes are immaculate); it’s a signal to my nervous system that the "doing" is done. I take a deep breath and say, out loud, "I have done enough for today."
Whether you’re using a manifestation journal to plan your future or just trying to survive the present, this transition is vital. It’s the "threshold" where you leave your worries at the door.
You cannot find Menuha if your pockets are buzzing with emails and TikTok notifications. My second step is what I jokingly call the "Phone Funeral."
I have a beautiful wooden box where my phone goes to sleep for the duration of my Sabbath. I don't just "put it on silent": I physically remove it from my sight. This is a rooted approach to reclaiming your attention. When we remove the digital noise, we finally give ourselves permission to hear our own internal voice. It’s scary at first, but once the phantom vibration syndrome fades, the peace that replaces it is addictive.
This is where the real magic happens. Once the house is quiet and the digital world is muted, I open my self care journal. For me, journaling is the cornerstone of my healing journey.
I don't write "To-Do" lists here. Instead, I use my Still Rising journal to reflect on where I saw God’s hand during the week. I ask myself:
Writing these things down turns an abstract feeling into a concrete reality. It’s not just "thinking" about rest; it’s documenting your transformation. You’re giving yourself permission to write your own story, rather than letting the world write it for you.
Rest is a full-body experience. As someone who lives with physical challenges, I’ve learned that my environment heavily dictates my internal state. My Sunset Sabbath involves soft textures and grounding scents.
I might wrap myself in a warm, patterned throw or put on some essential oils (frankincense and lavender are my go-tos). The goal is to make your space feel like a sanctuary. We often spend our weeks in "utility mode": using our bodies and spaces as tools to get things done. In the Sabbath, your space becomes a place of delight. This is the "romance" part of the romance with stillness.
Finally, before I close my eyes, I use my manifestation journal to plant "seeds" for the week ahead.
The difference between a goal and a seed is the energy behind it. A goal feels like a demand; a seed feels like a hope. I don't plan my meetings; I plan my intentions. I might write: "Next week, I intend to move with grace," or "I intend to see the beauty in the mundane."
By ending my Sabbath ritual this way, I’m not just resting from work; I’m resting for life. I’m ensuring that the peace I found in the Menuha follows me into Monday morning.
We live in a world that profits from our exhaustion. Reclaiming your peace through a Sunset Sabbath isn't just "self-care": it's an act of quiet rebellion. It’s saying that your worth isn't tied to your output.
If you’re ready to start your own ritual, you don't need a complicated system. You just need the willingness to pause. Our Becoming Light journal or the Still Rising series are designed to be your companions in this process. They are more than just paper and ink; they are tools for gentle transformation.
Transformation begins when you give yourself permission to stop. So, as the sun sets this Friday, I invite you to join me. Put the phone away, light that candle, and let the Menuha begin.
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